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Bipolar Disorder Relationships with Bi-Polar people

Mon, 30 Jan 2012 05:21:23 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; Relationships with Bi-Polar people. By Susan 247 comments. I am currently in a relationship with a person who has bi-polar disorder.[1] In the year that I have known this person I have seen his mood changes and he even ended up in a mental hospital about 2 months ago.[2] After he left the hospital, against doctors orders, He went on a shopping spree and spent about 8,000 in a period of about 4 days.[3] He has switched jobs about 4 times in the past 8 months.[4] I really care for this person and when his bi-polar diorder is under control he is so creaitve, passionate, open-minded.[5] At other times he thinks he is on top of the world and no one can prove them wrong.[6] How serious is this illness and can people with bi-polar disorder maintain a job, and a relationship ...
---Last comment Mon Jan 30 00:21:23 2012 by pleasehelphim from atlanta:
need advice Hi, my name is Ciana and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years.well every time he smokes marijuana, he goes into some kind of psychosis, starts talking to himself, thinking he celebrities, like he loose touch with the real world.Only happens when he smokes weed, hes never violent just acts weird.Well i told him he has a addiction, but he doesnt remember half of how he acts.Last saturday I called 911 on him because, he got high ...

Marriage Counseling Online christian counseling

Wed, 18 Jan 2012 09:20:11 GMT

Marriage Counseling: ; Marriage Counseling; Online christian counseling. By Vanessalee from Lancaster, Pennsylvania,US Are things not working out between you and your partner Do you feel that your marriage is falling apart Try our couple s therapy.[1] It will help you understand our partner better and bridge the gap between you two.[2] Our Marriage therapists are experts in their respective fields; hence they are capable of giving a new dimension to your married life. ...

Marriage Counseling Why is it important for couples to eat together

Wed, 18 Jan 2012 09:18:09 GMT

Marriage Counseling: ; Marriage Counseling; Why is it important for couples to eat together . By Blair Counseling from McHenry County 2 comments. In these days of ever increasing technological distractions and disturbances, shared meal times are falling dangerously close to the way side.[1] But is this a problem Should couples spend then necessary time and effort to make dinner happen I think so.[2] Find out why.[3] I'm also interested in hearing your thoughts on the subject.[4] Do you eat meals with your partner How often Do you help in meal preparation Why or why ...
---Last comment Wed Jan 18 04:18:09 2012 by Vanessalee from Lancaster, Pennsylvania,US:
Individual Counseling I think today's busy life communication is missing somewhere in our life.[1] Eating together is the one of the ways of sharing time with your partner. ...

Marriage Counseling Seven Signs That You Need Marriage Counseling

Wed, 18 Jan 2012 09:13:56 GMT

Marriage Counseling: ; Marriage Counseling; Seven Signs That You Need Marriage Counseling. By Blair Counseling from McHenry County 6 comments. In descending order: 7.[1] Growing Emotional Distance 6.[2] Decreasing Interest 5.[3] Increasing Time Apart 4.[4] Lack of Intimacy 3.[5] Feelings of Resentment 2.[6] Name Calling 1.[7] Total Breakdown of Communication Click the link to read the whole ...
---Last comment Wed Jan 18 04:13:56 2012 by Vanessalee from Lancaster, Pennsylvania,US:
JC Christian Counseling Lack of communication is also one of the reasons.[1] Marriage counselor is the middle person who can communicate from both the sides. ...

Marriage Counseling JC Christian Counseling

Fri, 13 Jan 2012 12:57:26 GMT

Marriage Counseling: ; Marriage Counseling; JC Christian Counseling . By Vanessalee from Lancaster, Pennsylvania,US Is work related stress taking a toll on your health Our online counselors will act as your friend philosopher and guide and will help you deal with your problems in an effective way.[1] Try our individual counseling sessions online ...

Marriage Counseling i think my husband hates me

Fri, 13 Jan 2012 12:54:19 GMT

Marriage Counseling: ; Marriage Counseling; i think my husband hates me. By athena from georgia 2 comments. i think my husband hates me, what kind of person ignores their wife for four days and then talks to them and then tells them how much they miss them.[1] My husband told me tonight on a IM that he misses me, i laugh in my reply and said whatever.[2] he got mad at me and told me i hurt him when i said that.[3] I was like how did i hurt you because i am telling you how i feel.[4] I dont feel like you care about me all you care about is your son.[5] The reason you keep me around is for you son not because you care about me.[6] he said he missed holding me and i laugh again and said you only miss holding me because what happens after we hold each other.[7] i know you are thinking that i am a bitch and all i do is keep laughing in his face while he is expressing his love to me but i feel like i have every right.[8] My ...
---Last comment Fri Jan 13 07:54:19 2012 by Vanessalee from Lancaster, Pennsylvania,US:
online christian counseling I can understand your feelings.[1] In such case you need a good advice.[2] Take help from a ...

Marriage Counseling major trust issues in marriage

Fri, 13 Jan 2012 12:49:24 GMT

Marriage Counseling: ; Marriage Counseling; major trust issues in marriage. By Lisa 31 comments. My husband has a job with many women of whom he will also travel.[1] I have been told he has cheated on me.[2] Once by a friend who witnessed it.[3] He denied.[4] When I ask questions just to make myself more comfortable with his job/travel he flies off the handle.[5] I have serious trust issues.[6] I feel I would get through not over them easier if I could be open to ask for more information.[7] He gets angry.[8] This is causing me to want out, I think about it all the time and just want it to be over.[9] Is it me Or ...
---Last comment Fri Jan 13 07:49:24 2012 by Vanessalee from Lancaster, Pennsylvania,US:
Marraige Counseling Trust and faith is the very foundation of healthy marital relationship.[1] If you are not comfortable with the trust on him then he should make you comfortable by solving issues.[2] Many spouses neglect the situation.[3] They just don't ...

Marriage Counseling I blame mother-in-law for child with genetic disorder and autism

Wed, 11 Jan 2012 23:53:14 GMT

Marriage Counseling: ; Marriage Counseling; I blame mother-in-law for child with genetic disorder and autism. By Masha 5 comments. Hi, when I got pregnant we went to the first OB-GYN appointment together with my husband.[1] We filled paperwork together and talked to the doctor together.[2] The only what I knew at that moment was 3 cases of cleft leap and cleft pallet on my husband's side.[3] Doctor assured us that our chance to have child with that genetic disorder is very low because there no other problems and no problems in my family.[4] Later we discussed our doctor visit with my husband's mother.[5] She assured me that that is the only problem that seems to be running in their family.[6] I was concerned, but ultrasound didn't show any abnormalities.[7] We start having problems with our baby girl when she was 6 month old.[8] By 9 moths she already was in physical and occupational therapies, and was taking medication to help with her ...
---Last comment Wed Jan 11 18:53:14 2012 by Willy Philips from New York:
the in-laws are crazy I am in a similar situation and symphatize with the original poster.[1] A genetic disease is not something to hide from someone you marry.[2] Hiding such things is a breach of trust that's essential to marriage.[3] In addition, it's unfair to force someone else to deal with health problems.[4] Maybe your family might be ok with disabled kids, but not everyone wants that.[5] The wife should have been given the choice to choose or not to ...

Bipolar Disorder The biting thing

Wed, 11 Jan 2012 19:07:45 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; The biting thing. By Sarah from The Big Easy It has gone on for about 20 years.[1] The biting relieves stressful situations, in a sense.[2] It started when I was five, maybe six.[3] I am now twenty six, with an education, and considered respected in most places within society.[4] But, the bruises on my right arm are not becoming.[5] I feel as if it is impossible to stop biting my arm when under stress and I never knew that others struggled with this problem, .[6] Really, it was assumed to be a personality quirk until a friend noticed me doing it.[7] He told me that it is a sign of depression or bipolar disorder.[8] Does anyone have advise on that subject I researched the issue and found that it is an indication of bipolar disorder.[9] It is obviously unnatural or abnormal.[10] I want to stop the biting.[11] Does anyone have a suggestion on how to do ...

Bipolar Disorder boyfriend s 19 year old son

Mon, 09 Jan 2012 13:50:16 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; boyfriend's 19 year old son . By shy from st louis 5 comments. I find that every now and then my boyfriend's son complains about something I've said.[1] He is arrogant and claims to know the best information about everything.[2] I got angry with him recently because he was telling me how to clean a bathtub.[3] Which I see as absurd since he doesn't clean very well at all.[4] Usually I try to ignore what he says and walk away - that is what I've been told to do by the young man's parents.[5] My boyfriend has asked me to come to him if his son causes a problem and he will find a way to handle it.[6] I feel that the young man's feelings are set above everyone else in order to protect him.[7] I have left with feelings of inadequacy in regards to the way situations are handled.[8] Does anyone out there have a similar problem.[9] How did you handle it ...
---Last comment Mon Jan 9 08:50:16 2012 by shy from st louis :
thanks Vanessa I do try to be his friend.[1] But you must understand that being the friend of a person like him is really a little difficult.[2] One never knows when he will verbally attack or throw things when he is angry.[3] At this time I am still trying to step back and let my boyfriend handle it.[4] My frustration comes in when his behavior is just sluffed off as if it is ok to behave badly without ...

Marriage Counseling Is couples counseling effective

Mon, 09 Jan 2012 10:09:24 GMT

Marriage Counseling: ; Marriage Counseling; Is couples counseling effective . By Allie Wilson from Florida 4 comments. I have read that Palm Beach Couple s Counseling provides emotional, relational and spiritual encouragement and couple s counseling or couples therapy is a useful mode of help for all couples who are facing difficulties in their life and the reference of gatewaycounseling.com but should I believe that it really works Can anyone success of gatewaycounseling.com ...
---Last comment Mon Jan 9 05:09:24 2012 by Vanessa from Lee:
Is couples counseling effective Hi, Yes couple counseling is important because marriage counseling and couple counseling will support for us.[1] Couple counselors give the right matches for us.[2] They have knowledge and experience.[3] ...

Marriage Counseling Questions: Why does my husband explode every time I ask him to help or discuss a

Mon, 09 Jan 2012 10:03:28 GMT

Marriage Counseling: ; Marriage Counseling; Questions: Why does my husband explode every time I ask him to help or discuss a. By Devin from Milltown, New Jersey 3 comments. I'm at the end of my rope and very close to getting a divorce.[1] My husband never helps me with anything around the house and when he starts a project, never finishes it.[2] He seriously gets mad at me and tries to say I'm lazy when I point out the fact that he jumps on facebook the minute he gets home or watches tv or plays games.[3] He says I'm lying but I see the history on the computer and that's all he does.[4] If I ask for help he calls me a bunch of terrible names and turns the whole thing around as if I'm a crazy person for asking and he turns it into what I consider an abusive situation each time.[5] I don't think it's nagging to just ask for him to do his share of the responsibilities especially when he is not the one paying the majority of the bills.[6] If he finally does help after months of ...
---Last comment Mon Jan 9 05:03:28 2012 by Vanessa from Lee:
Questions: Why does my husband explode every time I ask him to Hi, I can understand your feeling and this is insecurity feeling and he is really more possessive for you and he may be afraid that he can not lost her.[1] Your faith and support will be remove his doubts. ...

Bipolar Disorder I think by boyfriend is bipolar

Fri, 30 Dec 2011 18:01:18 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; I think by boyfriend is bipolar. By beachgirl from AL Hello, So many stories, so similar to mine.[1] I was divorced for about a year, I am 47 and have three children.[2] Was going out and having a great time, I did not want a relationship so soon after divorce.[3] Well, I met a great guy 38 and proceeded to full very hard.[4] We actually fell in love with each and he moved into my home shortly after the relationship started.[5] He was wonderful, great with my children, etc.[6] so forth.[7] We talked, laughed and loved Then he got very moody He would pace back and forth, mutter to himself and complain that he needed time to be alone.[8] We went on a vacation together with my kids and he was drinking a lot.[9] He just turned on me and got very very angry the whole world is against him get this "It's all my fault".[10] Mind you, I gave this man a place to live, ...

Bipolar Disorder Please don t always say how bad BP is

Tue, 27 Dec 2011 18:05:00 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; Please don't always say how bad BP is. By Spence from USA I am a 53 YO man who was diagnosed at age 25 and have been on various meds since then.[1] After a couple hospitalizations in the beginning my life has been very full.[2] Accomplishments, disappointments, achievements, and yes, setback/failure.[3] That's life.I know people have some terrible experiences and I've had a few, too.[4] I believe that those of us who are bipolar are making our own situations worse by constantly talking about the terrible things in our lives Yes they're real .[5] People in the world hear these awful things and whenever they hear "Bipolar" they connect with terrible.[6] I feel, like with anyone, that we should try and portray ourselves in a positive light.[7] People will react differently and that will make our lives easier.[8] Thank ...

Bipolar Disorder Manage 4 life

Tue, 27 Dec 2011 13:58:48 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; Manage 4 life. By Leila from Michigan 1 comments. I was diagnosed with BiPolar Disorder in my twenties.[1] I am now in my early forties.[2] I am also a Christian and was at the time of my diagnosis.[3] It saddens me to hear people talk of cures and complete deliverance for BiPolar, especially church leadership and especially those who have never experienced it.[4] BiPolar is a living Hell.[5] I will always believe that God is able to deliver us completely.[6] But listening to so many, He doesn't seem to tend to.[7] I know in my case, He has not.[8] What He has given me is the ability to manage it so well that people who did not know me way back when would not believe me if I told them I have it.[9] My family members who have watched me go through it and now manage it have been strengthened in their faith and praise God for how he has blessed me.[10] However, I still ...
---Last comment Tue Dec 27 08:58:48 2011 by Leila from Michigan:
Manage 4 life I forgot to add that I have been living a normal life since then. 8 years ago Well, as well as normal as "on disability" can be.I recently came off disability.[1] January 2011 Been off for a year.[2] While on disability, I set out to get my life back in order.[3] I went back to school and got a degree.[4] I now have a good job and take care of my son more the way that I have wanted to.[5] I have a regular 40 hour a week job.[6] While on ...

Bipolar Disorder Anxiety Bipolar

Sun, 11 Dec 2011 18:58:57 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; Anxiety Bipolar. By Liz from Earth My boyfriend of over a year has bipolar depression.[1] I have self-diagnosed high anxiety after my mother died suddenly.[2] My boyfriend has tried medications for bipolar but they just made him completely not feel anything.[3] This damaged us both.[4] Lately we've been fighting a lot and my anxiety has been a real problem.[5] I really want this relationship to work.[6] Any suggestions on how to properly handle ...

Depression Cpoe With Depression

Fri, 09 Dec 2011 06:20:37 GMT

Depression: ; Depression; Cpoe With Depression. By marvin cohen from tavares,fl 1 comments. I am suffering with depression and take 3 meds a day.it is not easy.my site is my way to help others.The mood swings and sadness is sometimes over bearing but i am trying to go on with my life.my site is there to help ...
---Last comment Fri Dec 9 01:20:37 2011 by Ema Jackson from Earth:
Depression Involve yourself in some work.[1] Take out some time from your hectic schedule for your hobbies. ...

Bipolar Disorder Self-Injury with biting

Thu, 08 Dec 2011 18:02:58 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; Self-Injury with biting. By elizabeth jarvis 91 comments. I have struggled with bi-polar since childhood ..[1] would like to chat about self-injury ...[2] in may case it is biting my hands ..[3] started around January ..[4] i don't seem to be able to stop ...[5] would love to hear from you.[6] Thanks ...
---Last comment Thu Dec 8 13:02:58 2011 by grahame from london:
I'm so glad I'm not alone I'm really greatfull that I've found this site .[1] I'm 37 and since the age of 11 I have bitten my knuckles .[2] Some times I have gone as far as drawing blood because I have bitten down to the flesh Caurseing great pain .[3] I don't bite my thumbs but only the other fingers .[4] This last couple of months has been bad as I've started to go deeper again and when I bend my fingers the thin layer of skin cracks open and poors with ...

Bipolar Disorder my wife wants divorce and says theres no hope

Tue, 06 Dec 2011 03:01:25 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; my wife wants divorce and says theres no hope. By shrek_4 from hell, nc 5 comments. my wife and i have always had a pretty good relationship, until about 6 months ago.[1] she was diagnosed bipolar and was reccommended counselling and meds.[2] i went with her to every counselling to show my support for her, and to show her that i wasn't going anywhere, that i would always be there for her.[3] our relationship had hit the rocks for awhile and she was afraid i would try to find some one better .[4] but i have never faltrered, hard as it may be sometimes, i love her with everything i am, and i am not going to give up on her and my kids.[5] recently she stopped taking her meds and says that when she is not on them she can see how much i take advantage of her because i dont help clean the house enuff, and because i'm not as sensitive a guy as she needs.[6] that i no longer make her happy.[7] so ...
---Last comment Mon Dec 5 22:01:25 2011 by Dustin from NC:
In the boat also After reading your post and the ones following there after I to am in pretty close to the same situation.[1] I am Air Force and that alone does not make family life any easier.[2] I too have been looking for better positions to try and spend more time and home to help aid my wife who is bi-polar type one, which is from what i am told is the most severe type of bi-polar.[3] Me and my wife have been married for three years now with 2 ...

Bipolar Disorder Friendly advice to help aid bipolar wife

Tue, 06 Dec 2011 02:22:45 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; Friendly advice to help aid bipolar wife. By Dustin from NC I have been married to my wife for little over 3 years now and we have two beautiful daughters together.[1] She was diagnosed with bi-polar type 1 about year and a half ago, literally about a week after our second was born.[2] From talking with her doctor she has probably had this illness since she was in 11th grade.[3] I do what i can to help her.[4] Help her keep scheduals, make sure she takes her meds on time, help with stressors and several other things.[5] She was making some good improvements a while back and recently she has started falling again.[6] She lashes out at me over petty things.[7] I have gotten to the point where i do not know what else i can do for her, or myself.[8] It is a hard road being bi-polar, for her and myself i know this.[9] When she snaps it sometimes turn into arguements and ...

Bipolar Disorder what to do

Thu, 01 Dec 2011 19:21:27 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; what to do . By Kayla 1 from California, San Jose Dear Dr.[1] Douglas, I have been with my Husband for about three years now.[2] We have a 1 year old son.[3] We just got married this year june 2011.[4] So we have only been married for less than a year.[5] My husband has always showed signs is bipolar disorder.[6] He always has many mood changes and really bad anger problems.[7] He can go from 0 to 60 instantly.[8] It's quite scary at times.[9] He will fight out of no where just to pick a fight.Then just about 3 months ago he started getting worst.Then it became yelling and screams at me in the face and pushes me around in front of our baby boy.[10] Always putting me down connately with bad language.[11] He mentally abuses me, always talks about leaving me, he has tried many times to but he always comes back.[12] I can go on and on about this.[13] So about one month ago i talked ...

Bipolar Disorder Cause Suicide is Painless

Thu, 01 Dec 2011 17:41:02 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; Cause Suicide is Painless. By Adam Celine 5 comments. I feel like a drug addict with no twelve step program.[1] No, I dont do drugs, but it feels like BiPolar is a drug by itself.[2] It's like having a little invisible pouch on the back of my neck that randomly injects a drug to make me manic.[3] It becomes so hard to control myself.[4] I have to pause and analyze everything I say before I say it, so I can filter and make it sound normal.[5] As the mania gets worse, I start to think anything is possible, and ideas...[6] oh the ideas, they race in packs through my head, and half of them dont make any sense at all.[7] These senseless racing thoughts, as far as I'm concerned, they're just another way to define insanity.[8] I want you to really understand how I feel, and then I'm going to ask for your help / advice / anything you have to offer.[9] So just bear with me ...
---Last comment Thu Dec 1 12:41:02 2011 by LISAMARIE from LOST:
Sad My brother, like you, was a functioning member of society.[1] He was successful at his job, had many friends and a love from his family.[2] Things came crashing down on him in 2007.[3] He attempted suicide and was diagnosed with BPD.[4] If that sounds bad, it's not.[5] This is where his life started to spiral out of control.[6] He was put on medications, which did nothing but make him a zombie.[7] After a year, he decided to try shock therapy.[8] He could not ...

Bipolar Disorder BiPolar

Wed, 30 Nov 2011 23:09:09 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; BiPolar. By Alyssa Killebrew from Atlanta, GA My fiance is Bi-polar and has been prescribed medication.[1] He has been refusing to take the medication and on The night of Thanksgiving got highly intoxicated.[2] He attacked me and my collar bone was broken from a fall I took.[3] The police came and arrested him.[4] Although I am very upset that this incident even occurred, I still love and care for him and want whats best for him.[5] My family and friends have been by my side and do not want me to have any contact with him, however I feel like losing me would cause him to harm himself or others.[6] I do not know what I should do.[7] Should I stick by his side once he is released from jail, or just run now while I have the chance.[8] I have a 3 year old daughter to think about as well and I know that she will also miss ...

Bipolar Disorder confused

Wed, 30 Nov 2011 15:31:42 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; confused. By Beth from lostville 1 comments. I have been in a relationship with someone with bipolar for the last 7 months, he went on a annual trip with his frat friends that he does once a year for 5 days, half way into the trip he called telling me he missed me, and loved me, then two days later saying he needed to get his life together and take a break from our realationship.[1] I felt like i got the wind knocked out of me..[2] I have heard that people with bipolar often push people away that they love.[3] I am just so confused and not sure how to handle the ...
---Last comment Wed Nov 30 10:31:42 2011 by puzzled from Not sure:
Same here... Hi there Beth.[1] I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to you.[2] I can relate to what you are going through.[3] After an amazing marriage of 6 years my wife wants to divorce me for no real or concrete reason.[4] She seems to still love me, but she is certain that our time together has come to an end, that she needs to go on a spiritual journey to the next phase of her life.[5] She believes that there is a pre-destined plan for us all and ...

Domestic Violence Violent Bipolar Husband promises he will change

Sat, 26 Nov 2011 05:20:48 GMT

Domestic Violence: ; Domestic Violence; Violent Bipolar Husband promises he will change . By elisheva20 from United States 2 comments. My husband was diagnosed bipolar two years ago.[1] He has been verbally and mentally abusive and has become physically abusive- all in front of our two small children.[2] I finally decided to leave him a month ago when after he hit me, I called the police.[3] When the police got there he lied and said I hit him and I almost got arrested.[4] He has also threatened to kill me.[5] We have been married for 4 years and I only stayed with him because I am a christian and I do not believe in divorce.[6] But I realized God doesnt want me to be treated this way.[7] Also, I do not want my boys to grow up thinking that is acceptable behavior.[8] Since I left my husband, he has gone from one extreme to the next.[9] Sometimes he threatens to kill himself, sometimes he tells me he is glad we are apart and that I have ruined his ...
---Last comment Sat Nov 26 00:20:48 2011 by julie from kansas:
cont.[1] LORD KNOWS.... THE VITAMINS THAT MY HUBBY TAKES ARE "PROTAZEN"...[2] I DONT KNOW HOW WELL THEY WORK BUT MY HUBBY CLAIMS THEY DO, AND HE CLAIMS TO BE SOOOO HAPPY EVERYDAY NOW HE POPS THEM EVEN WHEN HE FEELS ANY PRESSURE, OR THINKS ABOUT HOW BAD HE'S DONE ME...[3] IF YOUR HUBBY LOVES YOU AND THE FAMILY HE WILL TRY WHATEVER MAY HELP, ..[4] I BOUGHT 6 BOTTLES LOL BE ...

Anger My husband has depression and PTSD, filing divorce.

Mon, 21 Nov 2011 06:48:41 GMT

Anger: ; Anger; My husband has depression and PTSD, filing divorce.. By Angie from California. 40 comments. Hello everyone, i will make this as short as possible.[1] my husband is a two time Iraq war veteran, we married about 6 months after his first deployment, then 6 months later found out he was leaving again and that i was pregnant.[2] i moved back home to have support during the time he was gone, while he was over there, things were great, our email conversations were wonderful and loving when he came home, he met his son for the first time, and reunited with my daughter whom he has raised as his own.[3] we were all very happy, and about two weeks after he returned, things got shaky.[4] i told him he needed to go talk to someone because i had a feeling he was suffering from depression or PTSD, or both.[5] He ended up going about two months after the initial talk.[6] fast forward to about a month ago.[7] We ...
---Last comment Mon Nov 21 01:48:41 2011 by Chris Russell from San Antonio, TX:
Is there a way to save this marriage I've been to Iraq twice and the same things are going on with my situation but we don't have kids, I feel there is really no way out of this and all hope is lost, now I'm trying everything i can to save my marriage, I've fallen from grace, and ended up homeless after being seperated from the ...

Bipolar Disorder Living in hell

Sat, 19 Nov 2011 23:11:31 GMT

Bipolar Disorder: ; Bipolar Disorder; Living in hell. By Ena Mena from South Africa, Hell on Earth I read some of the comments posted I was diagnosed with Bipolar I 18 months ago To be honest always knew something wasnt right but wrote it off as a personality trait Yet it still shocked me when I was diagnosed I feel that there isnt a man alive that would want me.[1] I know the disorder affects what you think feel and do.[2] Its hard because u have no control over it Yes u can take your medication but my best friends depression and mania come and visit often Especially depression Ive been depressed for 10 months gained a lot of weight was down in the dumps and didnt want to be there felt guilty not being able to pull myself out I started reading living with bipolar slowly made lists 1st change meds 2nd paint nails start wearing make up etc The change of meds flipped me into mania I knew it but ...

Psychology The Self-Improvement Disease

Fri, 18 Nov 2011 05:11:16 GMT

Psychology: ; Psychology; The Self-Improvement Disease. By Nicolas Bramble from New York There is no such thing as self improvement .[1] The fallacy of self-improvement comes from the fact that you must first believe there is something outside that needs to be improved upon.[2] When people believe they are flawed, the tendency is to start searching, searching, and searching some more to find a solution, an answer Looking for meaning, solutions, and happiness out there .[3] Here s the point, nothing outside can solve your problems.[4] If this were true, if there was a magical outside fix to life- there d be no sad, high-strung, depressed people in the world.[5] There would be no depressed and unhappy rich folks check out the tabloids Great news is that you already have the resources inside to be happy, wealthy, and successful.[6] This idea is so foreign to many and to conventional ...

Self Improvement Find difficult to Express My self

Sat, 05 Nov 2011 09:49:46 GMT

Self Improvement: ; Self Improvement; Find difficult to Express My self . By Faina from New york Hi friends ..[1] I am new here ..[2] My problem is that i am very shy type person ..[3] find it very hard to express my self in front of others ..[4] i don't talk much..[5] and have many ideas but does not find good words to share so i used to keep my mouth shut when others discuss the things that i know very well ..[6] please help ...

Divorce Distribution of annuity

Fri, 04 Nov 2011 19:35:49 GMT

Divorce: ; Divorce; Distribution of annuity. By Anne 1 from NJ 1 comments. I know that inheritances are not considered part of marital property if kept separate, but what about the monthly proceeds from an inherited annuity If I use the monthly proceeds for household purposes, but not the principal, what happens in a divorce Does the pricipal then become mutual property Also, if my inheritance consists of life insurance and stock, for example, and I use the life insurance but not the stock for household expenses, is the stock still protected ...
---Last comment Fri Nov 4 15:35:49 2011 by Abbey from London:
Legal Advice Why would you go to a public forum for legal advice instead of paying a qualified lawyer in your area Do you want to take the word of anybody in the world that will answer you for free Besides, you didn't mention what State or even what country you are ...

Psychology Question Your Limitations Achieve Your Goals

Mon, 31 Oct 2011 06:52:09 GMT

Psychology: ; Psychology; Question Your Limitations/Achieve Your Goals. By Nicolas Bramble from New York Did you know that if you move a goldfish from its small fishbowl in your home and took it to a lake, that he will still continue to swim in the same circles as in the fishbowl Why is that Because ultimately he has accepted the belief that if he swims out farther than his learned movements and conditioned state, that he is going to bump himself into the fishbowl .[1] He s always done it this way, this is all he knows, and any other way is now impossible Like the goldfish that has been freed to the lake, you still think you re limited.[2] Your limitation is set by your beliefs.[3] When you challenge your beliefs, you take the first step in ending your limitations.[4] If your beliefs do serve you and your goals- they will withstand the scrutiny.[5] If they don t its time to drop them and replace ...

Single Parenting Embeded YouTube: Reality of a Single Teen Mom- What a Bad Day Looks Like

Fri, 28 Oct 2011 17:05:33 GMT

Single Parenting: ; Single Parenting; Embeded YouTube: Reality of a Single Teen Mom- What a Bad Day Looks Like . By Abbey from London Sorry for the confusion with this video being public and then private.[1] It wasn't supposed to go up until I went through it and made sure I wanted to upload it.[2] Let me just clarify: I love Caiven, I love my life, and I am HAPPY.[3] This is just some of the things I think about and feel on a bad ...

Anxiety Article: Beat That Fear of Public Speaking

Wed, 26 Oct 2011 23:19:33 GMT

Anxiety: ; Anxiety; Article: Beat That Fear of Public Speaking. By Self Help Articles from Here Do you know what the number 1 reported fear in the US is No it isn't heights, it isn't closed spaces, not even rattlesnakes.[1] Surprisingly or perhaps not , more Americans report that they fear public speaking than anything else in the world.[2] In particular, making presentations in front of many people scares Americans the most, and this is probably rooted in corporate culture, where making presentations is already a norm.[3] Read the complete article ...

Dysfunctional Embeded YouTube: Dysfunctional Family

Wed, 26 Oct 2011 14:07:26 GMT

Dysfunctional: ; Dysfunctional; Embeded YouTube: Dysfunctional Family . By Abbey from London A video I made for church about dysfunctional families.[1] This isn't the version I showed at church.[2] . ...

Psychology That Elusive Greatness

Tue, 25 Oct 2011 02:33:08 GMT

Psychology: ; Psychology; That Elusive Greatness. By Nicolas Bramble from New York 1 comments. Why do many live in GREATNESS movie stars, billionaires, celebrities, successful business people , while others stagnate through life in struggle, hardship and limitation Truth is that you are already great.[1] There is only one problem.[2] WHO YOU REALLY ARE - your non-physical and authentic self- is already great but you don t realize this if you re experiencing lack and struggle.[3] A metaphor to describe this is the seed of an oak tree.[4] Imagine the seed; or acorn, everything that defines the oak tree is already in the acorn.[5] Unlike people, the acorn doesn t live under the illusion that it has to be something else or strive toward an accomplishment or goal that isn t within its very own nature.[6] In other words, the greatness that is inherent within you is your soul, your authentic non-physical ...
---Last comment Mon Oct 24 22:33:08 2011 by fiona watson:
the words are enlightening Nicholas because they are all true.[1] I am contemplating that the social norms are really creating the walled us.[2] All we have to do is break the bricks that the standards of this world have built so we can go to the elusive greatness.[3] It is taught in psychology that in order to reach the self actualization peak we must go through everything and that includes ...

Cancer Video: Obama Highlights Cancer Patient s Plight

Mon, 24 Oct 2011 22:51:30 GMT

Cancer: ; Cancer; Video: Obama Highlights Cancer Patient's Plight. By Tietjen from Alzada, Montana 2 comments. President Barack Obama traveled to the hometown of a cancer victim who wrote the president that she gave up her health insurance after the cost rose to $8500 a year.[1] Obama cited that letter to illustrate the urgency of the health care reform.[2] March ...
---Last comment Mon Oct 24 18:51:30 2011 by Sara:
I have to agree with that.[1] Not all are as goodhearted as the current president of the United States.[2] And for me, nothing can beat Obama in terms of extending help to those who are in need.[3] Look at how attached he was in attending to those people whom are of great need of assistance from the government.[4] Let us hope for him to continue with his ways with people. ...

Psychology Psychology vs. Psychiatry

Mon, 24 Oct 2011 10:15:09 GMT

Psychology: ; Psychology; Psychology vs. Psychiatry. By Tietjen from Alzada, Montana 3 comments. Be My Friend - www.myspace.com Dr.[1] John Breeding, Ph.D.[2] psychologist discusses the difference between psychiatry and psychology.[3] Psychiatry focuses on medical or physical interventions such as drugs, electroshock therapy, deep brain stimulation by electrode, psychosurgery, etc.[4] This is the model of biological psychiatry.[5] Behavior problems are considered to be actual medical illnesses with physical causes despite the fact that after over 100 years of attempts to identify a physical cause for mental illness, there are still none.[6] Often time people are given antidepressants like Prozac, Zoloft, Paxil, Luvox, Celexa, Lexapro, Effexor or Wellbutrin.[7] SSRI Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors are often promoted as correcting chemical imbalances in the brain but there is no proof that ...
---Last comment Mon Oct 24 06:15:09 2011 by Mel:
This is genuinely interesting to me, though I place little stock in either branch, as most mentally healthy people.[1] It is not until you are sick that you pay attention to doctors and their like, so I believe it is normal that most people would not think about this branch of science or medicine or whatever they call themselves.[2] However I do appreciate their contributions to society when they are positive. ...

Anxiety Anxiety, Panic Attacks, OCD, Stress Phobias, THE Solution

Sat, 22 Oct 2011 09:45:37 GMT

Anxiety: ; Anxiety; Anxiety, Panic Attacks, OCD, Stress Phobias, THE Solution. By Tietjen from Alzada, Montana 3 comments. www.panic-anxiety.com Do anxiety related conditions dominate your life Charles Linden, author of The Linden Method explodes the myths surrounding the disorders such as Anxiety, Panic Attacks, OCD, Stress Phobias and shows sufferers how they can eliminate their anxiety, quickly and permanently without the need for drugs or therapy.[1] The Linden Method has helped tens of thousands of people worldwide to permanently eliminate their anxiety.[2] Please watch Charles' intro to The Linden Method and contact us through http should you have any questions or wish to join The Linden Method Program. ...
---Last comment Sat Oct 22 05:45:37 2011 by Mel:
It sounds too far fetched to me that any method could completely eliminate my anxiety, as most of it would be caused by events which happen outside me.[1] However, I am sure this could help me learn to handle the potential causes for anxiety, though if I were to expect that I would never worry again, that just seems very unrealistic and seems that it would make me discouraged to even ...

Single Parenting YouTube: A day in the life of a single parent

Mon, 17 Oct 2011 04:44:35 GMT

Single Parenting: ; Single Parenting; YouTube: A day in the life of a single parent. By Tietjen from Alzada, Montana 4 comments. Could you manage two children, a job and a home without the support of a partner, low wages and society looking down at you Watch how it is ...
---Last comment Mon Oct 17 00:44:35 2011 by fiona watson:
being a single parent is hard i can tell because i know a lot of people that go through this.[1] both on the financial area and the parenting will be done alone most of the time since the other half is not present.[2] the best thing to do for me is to seek the help of professionals who can give advises since this is a traumatic experience for the ...

Dysfunctional Dysfunctional Christmas Dinner

Fri, 14 Oct 2011 14:45:19 GMT

Dysfunctional: ; Dysfunctional; Dysfunctional Christmas Dinner. By Tietjen from Alzada, Montana 2 comments. www.quietlibrary.com Nothing brings out the worst in people like the holidays.[1] In this parody of the Science Channel's "How It's Made" series, we investigate how a Christmas disaster is "really ...
---Last comment Fri Oct 14 10:45:19 2011 by Collie :
This is funny, really But seriously I know a friend who seem to never experienced Christmas eve and Christmas dinner with the whole family without fights and irritating scenes from his father.[1] And it is sad to know that he and his siblings got used to the trend of the same disaster Christmas dinner, every year.[2] But with this video, I find it really hilarious.[3] How could some folks mess up during Christmas dinner ...

Self Improvement Why Beef Can Kill You

Tue, 11 Oct 2011 10:02:09 GMT

Self Improvement: ; Self Improvement; Why Beef Can Kill You . By Nicolas Bramble from New York Beef can kill you And I m not talking about meat from a cow So you can relax now.[1] When I mean beef I mean conflict.[2] Having conflicts with your family, your friends, and your significant others, or people at work, or what not all of this stuff can have a detrimental impact on your health.[3] All of this negativity could be like a black cloud that s just hovering over you everywhere you go, and over your ability to create what you want in life, and so it denies you the very opportunity to do so.[4] When you have this kind of negativity it is very hard to be positive, and so how can you expect to be healthy, to create or attract what you want into life If you are always entrapped in this cloud of dark negativity all you can attract is more negativity, and so this will eventually impact your ...

Life Coaching Article: Are We Unable to Find What We Love Doing Or Are We Just Afraid to Find

Mon, 10 Oct 2011 14:19:55 GMT

Life Coaching: ; Life Coaching; Article: Are We Unable to Find What We Love Doing Or Are We Just Afraid to Find . By Self Help Articles from Here The people who will be long remembered in history are those people who knew what they loved doing, what they wanted out of life, and made sure that they become successful at it.[1] This is what I learned upon finding out about the death of Apple co-founder and ex-CEO Steve Jobs.[2] Read the complete article ...

Psychic Stress entity attachments... are they real.... do I have one

Sat, 08 Oct 2011 12:22:43 GMT

Psychic Stress: ; Psychic Stress; entity attachments... are they real.... do I have one . By Kimberly from Enfield, CT 4 comments. I went to a psychic about 2 years ago..[1] He was very good, he used tarot...[2] everything he said was very accurate...[3] I just have one question...[4] He told me that I have an entity attached to me and the only means to remove it would be thru reiki and to avoid cemetaries as I am very prone to picking up things there.[5] Therefore, if I were to have it removed and then entered a cemetary, I would probably just pick up a new one.[6] I am not sure how I feel about this.[7] I had never heard of such things.[8] Also, he told me that if I had the entity removed, surrounded myself in white light at all times and avoided cemetaries, I would find that my depression and anxiety would go away to the point that I would no longer need meds.[9] Has anyone ever heard anything like this Does anyone see an entity attached ...
---Last comment Sat Oct 8 08:22:43 2011 by Ellae:
Honestly, I don't really know what entity attachment is.[1] And I also don't believe in psychics.[2] I don't want to rely on the things that they would tell me because I make my own destiny.[3] And nobody has the power to see what's going to happen in the future.[4] Thank ...

Self Improvement Tuning Up Your Life Car

Thu, 06 Oct 2011 12:22:09 GMT

Self Improvement: ; Self Improvement; Tuning Up Your Life Car. By Nicolas Bramble from New York The conventional way of thinking is that you have to roll along through life and take whatever it gives you.[1] Unfortunately, you re not going to be getting everything you want out of life that way.[2] You have to become the driver of your own life, and take control of the steering wheel.[3] In other words, you have to set the course of your life and move in the direction you want.[4] Lets use an example of a car, when you first begin to drive you are unconsciously incompetent in the sense that you do not know what you are doing and are in the beginning stage of the learning process.[5] Later on, as you are guided and go through experiences you become unconsciously competent; meaning, you still aren t clear as to what you are fully doing but you have a rough mental sketch of what you need to do to ...

Shame I have BP II and people are ashamed of me, especially my daughter.

Tue, 04 Oct 2011 13:01:43 GMT

Shame: ; Shame; I have BP II and people are ashamed of me, especially my daughter.. By bipolarisme from Bipolar Institution of America I was diagnosed with BP II this past March.[1] I have known for a long time that people look at the outside of me and see a pretty, attractive person and then they don't hang out but never understood why everyone leaves me.[2] I don't think I get angry or abusive.[3] I always thought I just ran away or ran them off so I didn't get hurt.[4] Now I know I make bad decisions.[5] This week it had to do with trying to create a new FB page because my two sisters are abusive to me and I wanted to create a page where I could be very private and use a completely secretive name but I had to tell everyone who was my friend not to use my real name.[6] This included her in-laws because they were my friends on FB too.[7] This also included my teacher friends and in-laws.[8] In addition to my sisters, I was trying to keep ...

Self Improvement Article: Secrets to Accomplishing Your Goals

Mon, 03 Oct 2011 07:37:19 GMT

Self Improvement: ; Self Improvement; Article: Secrets to Accomplishing Your Goals. By Self Help Articles from Here 1 comments. Staying motivated and achieving your goals are possible.[1] Just follow these steps presented by experts and soon you will realize that you can actually attain your goals.[2] Read the complete article ...
---Last comment Mon Oct 3 03:37:19 2011 by Bernard :
Thanks for sharing such wonderful tips in here.[1] I must say that it is really crucial to know about some good ways to further improve one's self.[2] I would love to really be able to make the best out of me and be able to be a much better person.[3] And these self improvement tips are such a great help.[4] I'd love to really know some more tips.[5] Hope to hear from all of you guys. ...

Relationships Help...

Sun, 02 Oct 2011 07:01:03 GMT

Relationships: ; Relationships; Help.... By 474747 from In my head 1 comments. I wonder if someone can help with a little advice.[1] Basically ive been seeing this girl for a little while now and she has bipolar.[2] She recently just told me that she loves me and has said it quite a lot but she only seems to say it when she is on one of her high stages and then majorly backs off and acts like a completely different person.[3] Almost aloof.[4] I know a lot of you have said in previous posts that bipolar affects your personality but it's making me feel paranoid that she doesn't love me at all.[5] What I want to know is when people who suffer from bipolar get in one of their up stages, excited and full of energy are they more prone to feel things they don't actually feel and then regret it later I know obviously anyone could do this with or without bipolar, im just wondering if this ...
---Last comment Sun Oct 2 03:01:03 2011 by Beatrice:
Well, if you do not love her you'll be there for her for better and for worst.[1] As what you already said, she is suffering from a disease and it would be hard for her to really go on with life without those kinds of feelings and mood swings.[2] Better be ready for the worst of everything when you are into a relationship with a person suffering with any kind of illnesses. ...