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| Questions: Spiteful girlfriend (ex girlfriend)? I used to think she was the one until I saw signs of her personality that showed me that although she loved me, she didn't want to adapt to "us". Not budging. For instance, I got very sick once with a sore throat. She drank the last of my Seven-Up, when I asked if she could go get me some more, she said "No; drink some water". This past few weeks I had been cramming really hard for my medical school board exams. They cost over $1000 to take, and I've been studying for it for the past 7 months. We had just got back together and already I'm trying to incorporate her into EVERY break I possibly have, but for some reason, she "feels alone in the relationship" and "I OWE her major quality time when the stupid test is done". She got upset at my reply in which I said, "I didn't owe her b/c I'm not purposely separating myself, just trying to finish business." I even offered to take her to Cheesecake Factory two days in a row; she said no and she was still mad (even after I had apologized). So I told her she has no choice but to be mad if she takes advantage of everything I say (victim defense) AND doesn't accept apologies. She hung up and texted me calling me ignorant and not being able to work out issues. We didn't talk for 7 more days when we agreed to be done. During that 7 days I took my exams for 2 days, didn't get one call or text from her wishing me luck, thinking about me in spite of our issues, NOTHING. How small would this make you feel? Or am I overreacting? What's accepted in the male community as far as relationships/marriage is that the man simply has to deal with underappreciation AND will being left hangin' emotionally. I don't know if I can deal with something like that. Thoughts (mature ones only)? |
| Hi there! Not all relationship has a happy ending. Love will fly when you held it tightly, love will die when you held it too tightly. In relationship we have to in give and take process, we have to be open in each other. And we have to be strong enough to face the challenges together and never give up. |
| I have to agree with Lynie here. Getting in a relationship, you have to really be an open person and always be ready in any unexpected revelations and you are to hear along the way. If you really love your partner you have to accept everything about him or her no matter how painful or hard it is. You have to really embrace not just your partner's good traits but also the bad ones. |
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