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Questions: Why does my husband explode every time I ask him to help or discuss a - Marriage Counseling
| Questions: Why does my husband explode every time I ask him to help or discuss a I'm at the end of my rope and very close to getting a divorce. My husband never helps me with anything around the house and when he starts a project, never finishes it. He seriously gets mad at me and tries to say I'm lazy when I point out the fact that he jumps on facebook the minute he gets home or watches tv or plays games. He says I'm lying but I see the history on the computer and that's all he does. If I ask for help he calls me a bunch of terrible names and turns the whole thing around as if I'm a crazy person for asking and he turns it into what I consider an abusive situation each time. I don't think it's nagging to just ask for him to do his share of the responsibilities especially when he is not the one paying the majority of the bills. If he finally does help after months of my asking him to do things he'll only do one thing out of the many he has promised. He doesn't pay for my presents, he'll say he needs to borrow the money for my present and then will never pay me back. I've paid off his loans, let him pay off his bills while I paid for the household bills so he could fix his credit but he lied and didn't actually pay off all his bills afterall. He doesn't pay the important bills and he's been served by collection agencies and still won't learn how serious that is and what a hardship that puts on me for trying to refinance the house or buy a car or anything and I've bailed him out so many times. I've threatened to get a divorce and then he will start coming around just enough to make me think he is sincere about making our marriage work again only for the same thing to happen all over again. I work and pay the majority of the bills while he works part time and doesn't try very hard to better himself. When I do ask, he degrades me and puts me down calling me a bunch of awful names. He wasn't this way when I married him or obviously I wouldn't have married him. I'm pregnant with child number 2 b |
| "Anger management frustrations"
My husband is defensive everytime I ask him a question about projects here at home. He immediately goes on the offensive and personally attacks me...it is so frustrating and hurtful. Does anyone else have this situation and how do you remain calm and not blow up? |
| There surely are lots of issues each couple faces. And it is not easy to deal with things in married life. And so, you better be prepared for the unexpected. Never be confident with your partner that much. There will come a time that he or she might change. But, as their partner, you have to really look beyond the problem the two of you are facing. Because life will surely have something to throw to each couple. |
| "Questions: Why does my husband explode every time I ask him to"
Hi, I can understand your feeling and this is insecurity feeling and he is really more possessive for you and he may be afraid that he can not lost her. Your faith and support will be remove his doubts. |
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