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Answers: Are these just small issues or a very big problem? Need advice bad.? - Marriage Counseling
| Answers: Are these just small issues or a very big problem? Need advice bad.? So I'm 6 mo's pregnant with our 2nd little girl and am just wondering if I need to get professional counseling or just go ahead and seperate. My husband is mean to me alot out of nowhere. Tells me to leave him alone and is really hateful when I'm trying to be his friend and talk about it. He has a bunch of female facebook friends he messages which bothers me cuz why is he trying to be friends with them when our marriage is on the rocks and needs all the attention it can get? Had an arguement about it and he told me im trapping him and wont let him have any friends. I don't have guy friends btw. I find there's no need for that when your married. He's very negative a large percent of the time and feels like he plays no part in our fights. Everything is now my fault. Gets mad cuz I don't help with paying bills when I take care of our daughter and the house. Doesn't take into consideration the fact that I'm pregnant, overweight and insecure. I feel like we are just room mates most of the time. Like something is missing in our relationship. As if I don't fill a void for him. Celebrated our 2 year anniversary which ended up like the 1st. Him in a bad mood. He says that I don't use my head to think and tells me I have trust issues, nothing is ever good enough for me. I'm just so sad... I feel like everything is my fault. I do tell him when girls on his facebook bother me and maybe should chill out but I don't understand why he needs all of these girls to talk to when I'm here waiting? He went out without me knowing drinking w his cousin at a bar and then over to two family friends girls house till 2 am. I thought he was at his moms asleep. Told me he didn't feel like he did anything wrong. If only I could just not care... Maybe that would make our relationship better? Too much to list on here this is just a few of the issues going on. I'm just so ready to fix this or get out. |
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