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divorce - Domestic Violence
| divorcemy husband starting drinking an doing drugs 2 years ago. we owned a great business.he started staying gone for day's at a time.we have a nice home and 3 wonderful kids. i did everything i could to make him stop, during our worst of times i would take the kids and stay away. he destroyed our home and our company.he beat me many times and was arrested sometimes, not every time.he was running around with several young girls buying them drugs and whatever they wanted. he ran me out of our company and our home. onetime when he was about to leave on one of his disappering acts, i called the police and he was arrested. he got out a week later and filed for divorce and we are about to go to deposition , what do do now ? |
|  Hi maddie, I am very sorry for everything you are going through; it is a difficult and awkward time for you and your kids. The first thing you should know is that it is not your fault, if he can’t see the good thing he have or had with you and his kids, than he is a moron ( sorry to say it) maybe you are better off, you deserve someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved. The other thing I would advice you is to monitor your kids and communicate with them and also you will have to monitor how much you actually tell your children about the divorce, communicating regularly will let your kids know that you care about their feelings as well, and that you’re willing to do what it takes to heal, so that you can improve the situation for everyone involved. You should also let your children know that you will be there to talk to them any time they just want to ask questions about the divorce, or explain their emotions about their changing families. Keep in mind that everything eventually will get better, and you will heal. |
| That is true. Sometimes those who suffers from domestic violence unconsciously blames themselves for what had happened to the family. That should not be the case. It is not your fault that you and your husband are splitting up. I think it is much better if you would get out of that relationship because your husband is not that same husband that you married before. He is someone else now. Just thinking of your husband abusing and hurting you, divorce should really be considered. |
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