'Narcissistic spouses'

Raina (63.176.159.16) -

I need to know how I can deal with my narcissistic husband. Now that the kids are getting older, I don't know how much more I can take. I can't keep it together anymore. Does anyone who has been through his know I can can deal with it and try to save my marriage?

Comment #1 Trina (63.176.159.103) -

To help you think better of what is the best thing to do with your self-centered husband, here is a brief definition of narcissism:

Narcissism describes the trait of excessive self-love, based on self-image or ego.In psychology and psychiatry, excessive narcissism is recognized as a severe personality dysfunction or personality disorder. The terms narcissism, narcissistic, and narcissist are often used as pejoratives, denoting vanity, conceit, egotism or simple selfishness. Applied to a social group, it is sometimes used to denote elitism or an indifference to the plight of others.

So as what we can see, your husband definitely have self love, so the decision is in your hands.

Comment #2 Augustus (63.176.159.126) -

There are many types of abuse and one of which is verbal abuse. If you're husband has swayed into this ugly road of verbal abuse then your relationship with him is no longer healthy. If not, then I think you should tell it to him and he will listen if he really loves you.

Why did you fell in love and married him anyways if he is like that? Maybe there is a more serious problem here like you neglecting him or loss of love amongst the both of you? Try a marriage counselor first before ending a relationship.

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