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confusedThis forum post has messages dated from 10/04/11 through 11/30/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Bipolar Disorder
| confused I have been in a relationship with someone with bipolar for the last 7 months, he went on a annual trip with his frat friends that he does once a year for 5 days, half way into the trip he called telling me he missed me, and loved me, then two days later saying he needed to get his life together and take a break from our realationship. I felt like i got the wind knocked out of me.. I have heard that people with bipolar often push people away that they love. I am just so confused and not sure how to handle the situation. |
| "Same here..."
Hi there Beth. I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to you. I can relate to what you are going through. After an amazing marriage of 6 years my wife wants to divorce me for no real or concrete reason. She seems to still love me, but she is certain that our time together has come to an end, that she needs to go on a spiritual journey to the next phase of her life. She believes that there is a pre-destined plan for us all and that our story is complete as governed by the universe. I've resigned to the idea that she simply doesn't love me anymore and that she doesn't want to admit it, hence blaming it on something so fluffy. She tells me how amazing a person I am, the perfect husband and that out there somewhere is someone who deserves me!? If I am so amazing then why is she wanting to run away to some green grass field that at the moment only exists in her mind?Sometimes without any evidence she would accuse someone with absolute certainty of some unforgivable action. I am so confused and hurt right now because someone who has been my friend, soulmate and lover for 6 years just want to run away from me with no intention of even trying to make the marriage work. I've been utterly confused...until... Until I read some posts about men talking about their wifes wanting to leave them for no reason. The 1st two random posts pointed out that their wifes were diagnosed with a bipolar disorder. I wasn't even looking for anything related to this! The more I read the more I could see the similarities between their wifes and mine. Then I relised that her mother is officially diagnosed with a serious case of bipolar. The mother's behavior is as you said, very hurtfull to those who love her. She pushes her children away while all they want is to hold and care for her. She has gone very cold and willingly isolated. So hopefully my story can give you something to think about and help you find sense and meaning as your story have done for me. My suggestion is to break it up with him and to be there for him as a friend, if you can tollerate it emotionally. I'm going to have to do the same. This truly is a sad end to a beautiful chapter of my life. |
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