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Lost a friend and not sure what to do?This forum post has messages dated from 09/11/10 through 10/18/10, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Anger
| Lost a friend and not sure what to do? Ok, so it's a long story, but I'll try to make it short as possible. It started with me telling a friend that I've liked her for the longest time. She didn't feel the same way and I took it horribly. I told her I didn't want to be friends anymore and ultimately threatened suicide. We didn't talk for a few days, but we finally met up at a diner to talk. She said she'd meet with me each night for the week to talk, etc. The next day, she said she couldn't meet because her parents didn't approve of our "meeting". Then an hour or so later, she claimed I was trying to manipulate her and didn't want to talk to me anymore. I didn't mean it when I said I wanted to hurt myself, but she didn't listen. And I wasn't going for manipulation at all. But again, didn't listen. I know I put her and a few other friends through a lot, and I've heard that they're eager to see me this Sunday at church (not the one I told I liked though, she doesn't want anything to do with me...). I REALLY don't feel like going. I don't want to deal with everyone's concern/anger for me, their parents, and just people in general. I just feel like I've done irreparable damage to my friendships and that it'd be a lot easier to just go back to the way I was before I had met them. As in, not go to church, revert to my old beliefs (not Christianity), and completely disassociate myself from them. Problem is, they're my only friends and it's tough for me to make new ones. I figure I've got time though, I'm fairly young (19)... Any advice, insight, or personal stories are welcome. It started last Friday, we met Monday, and I lost her Tuesday. I understand that it's all my fault, but there's nothing I can really do... |
| You know what you seem to be over reacting over the situation and you might want to consider finding a great way to make your friendship with your friends more healthy. I think you are threatening the girl in some way, you do not know it for the moment but there are some ways to treat your friends and I think your way is not my type of way. Anyway, we have different views on this. |
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