|
|
I don't understand this?This forum post has messages dated from 09/15/10 through 02/22/11, please be sure to read all the messages. If you feel it is old or outdated, please follow up with a question or comment and someone may be able to update it, or reply with newer information if you have it. - Anger
| I don't understand this? My dad is an butt hole to everyone everyday in my eyes. My friends wont even come over because of him. He treats my mom like she's trash all the time but yet she still does things for him. Every Sense i can remember i always remember thinking that i didn't like him. I always thought i was wrong about it but now i see i wasn't. I get this over powering feeling of anger when I'm around him it's kind of hard to explain i never used to get these feelings but now that i have gotten older it has gotten stronger I'm really not sure what to do about it I'm fine when I'm not around him everybody is but he comes home that feeling of anger comes again. What is this called? |
| How old are you anyway? If you can't stand your father then it is time to find a new place, your mother can take care and handle herself already. You might be feeling resentful for your father. Please do give your father another chance. We men are usually stubborn, hard headed, insensitive, and firm and usually we couldn't notice the people around us with that kind of attitude. If you have truly grown up and matured up, then I recommend reconciliation. |
| Well, I think it is time for your and your mother to get out of that house. It is not fair to think that as a man you have the right to do insensible and immature things especially towards your family. You have to move on with life and leave your father. Soon he will realize his faults and would ask for forgiveness but for now let him have his own dose of medicine. |
| Hi there! I am really to hear about your situation. Yes, sometimes, we are caught in a situation when we don't understand what's happening anymore. I think that's a typical teenager. You better just try understand him or at least take the effort of telling him about what you feel. This may help you a lot for sure. Thank you so much and have a great day to all! |
| Many of us can't control anger and it is just so hard to overcome it. But I think it is just a matter of handling things well. At times, we feel like we are lost and we can't figure out why things happen this way. I think we really have to control our feelings if we want to surpass the feeling of anger. I also experience the same way, I'm just glad that I also overcome it. |
| "Anger"
You have to take an effort expressing your feelings to your mom as well as to your dad. Your conversation could involve asking him questions, bringing up memories, and learning new things about him and your childhood that could shed light on some unresolved feelings. The best thing is do not focus on the past. Focus on the present and move towards the future. |
Reply Options Share your opinions, advice, questions or comments on this post. | Be Heard: Forum reply options: We encourage everyone to share their opinions, comments, thoughts and information, please consider sharing... Please register or login in to reply to this post: It is quick, easy and offers many advantages when using our site. |
Social NetworkingShare this with your friends on facebook, twitter and Google+ | | Social sharing because it feels good:
| |
|
RelatedSome related posts that may be of interest to you. | Related posts: Related posts on other sites: |
Tags and TaggingTags help organize related posts and resources by topic. | • insensitive • stubborn • |
|
